Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Death of only brother




Sorry I have not been visiting or commenting on any blogs for a while now. My older and only brother passed away Sunday, 09/02/12. With heavy hearts on  Monday, (our 46th wedding anniversary) TBG and I got into the car and started driving the 1300 miles north for funeral services and family visit. It's devastating to lose a family member and it is really hard to be so far away.  My nieces and nephews were heartbroken at losing their dad just before two major events in their family - a birth and a wedding. My heart goes out to them. As special as a brother is, a dad is one of the most important, influential persons in anyone's life.

My sister-in-law did a wonderful job planning the service, especially paying tribute to his veteran status as a Green Beret, Army Special Forces member. It was very moving to see the honor guard and flag ceremony while taps were played. Though many tears were shed, we all felt very proud of him.

It's so hard to realize that I am now the only "child" left in our original family. I pray he is reunited with our sister, Jane, who we lost so many years ago.  Rest in peace, big "brudda" from your "bratty kid sister."

I love you!
 

28 comments:

  1. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure it's not easy. I'm sending thoughts and prayers your way.

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  2. So sorry for your loss, Kaye. {{{HUGS}}}

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  3. My sympathies to you and all your family.

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  4. A very sad event..he and your family will be in my prayers

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  5. I'm so sorry for your loss, Kaye.

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  6. So sorry, Kaye, at this sad time.

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  7. I am sorry to hear about your families loss.

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  8. I'm so sorry for your loss. ((HUGS))

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  9. Please accept my condolences on a very sad loss.

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  10. My sympathy on the loss of your brother.

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  11. Kaye,
    You know my heart is breaking along with you. Your post made me tear up. Brothers are special and I will make sure to send some love to mine tonight. I'm so so sorry that you and your family have had to experience this devastating loss.

    Thinking of you always! With love and hugs,
    Staci

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  12. My heart, prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. May God give you all strength during this time.

    (((hugs)))

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  13. I'm so very sorry for your loss, Kaye. What a whirlwind it's been for you. I'm glad you traveled safely and were together with family but wish it had been for a happy occasion. It sounds like you all were able to celebrate just how special your brother was and I hope that was a bit of comfort. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending love and many hugs your way.

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  14. My thougts and prayers are with you and your family. Taker care of yourself and know that you have all of us behind you sending love your way.

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  15. So sorry for your loss Kaye. I feel your pain as I lost my only 2 siblings, 2 older brothers, in 2006 and 2009. It's tough....HUGS to you my friend.

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  16. Oh, Kaye, I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your family.

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  17. Thank you all for your caring thoughts, prayers and hugs. It's much appreciated.

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  18. I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure it is blow to your family and I'm sure it can feel weird and lonely to be left as the only sibling from a family. My heart goes out to you, and I wish you all the peace you can find at this difficult time. Hugs to you.

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  19. Kaye,
    I am so sorry for your loss, and I feel so badly to have heard this news. I will be stopping to pray for you today, and for the days in the future. Be well my friend, and know that your beloved brother is watching over you.

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  20. What a loving tribute to your brother, Kaye. My thoughts are with you.

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  21. My condolences to you and your family.

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  22. So sorry to hear about your brother passing away. Sending my love and hugs to you.


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  23. Hi Kaye and family,

    My heart goes out to you at this time and please accept my heartfelt condolences on your sad loss.

    Yvonne

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  24. I am so sorry to hear about your brother. I am sending hugs and prayers out to you and your family.

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  25. My prayers are with you and your family at this loss. We just had a memorial celebration for my Dad today so I can feel for you and his children especially.

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